Peace. It’s the focus, once again, for the next 25 days.
When I was asked to be part of this writing/storytelling experience again this
year, I agreed without hesitation. I agreed because I like the idea of writing
about peace, I like the idea of being in a group that’s writing about peace, I
like the idea of creatively bringing peace into the world in my own little way.
Peace. It’s what’s for…dinner?
I’ve raised two children. My third and final child is no
longer a child, but rather a 14 year old young lady. I’ve experienced many
battles in the parenting realm over the last 21 years; unfortunately it takes
me more than one trip around the mountain to figure things out. One lesson I
finally learned—ice cream makes your heart feel better, and sometimes that’s
all you can do—just eat ice cream.
Two years ago my youngest and I experienced a deep,
crushing, heart break. We both felt it and we both wondered if we’d ever not
feel it again. Hurt has a way of making you believe you’ll never feel anything
but hurt. Hurt has a way of making everything worse. One night in particular E
and I were sitting in silence on the couch when I blurted out, “We need ice
cream for dinner!” And so it began.
I’m grateful to say two years later our hurt has left,
laughter has returned, and love has overcome us. Two years later we see clearly
how God has healed, God has led, and God has provided. Two years later ice
cream is no longer just for wounds, it’s now become “our thing.” Hey, when you
have two women in the house, well, you need ice cream sometimes! You need ice
cream for dinner often. Ice cream brings peace.
I know I’ll always be a mom. I also know the role as mom
changes as the children grow up. I don’t like to live in the land of regrets,
but I do wish I’d done ice cream for dinner when it was the four of us. I think
there were times when we needed that kind of peace in our house.
As you move into Christmas time, and get busy with all the
places to go and people to see and things to buy, I encourage you to have ice
cream for dinner, and not feel guilty about it. We all need a little more peace
in our lives; and I can tell you, ice cream for dinner = peace!
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